Kinky Sex Stories

Breaking through sexual labels and finding more sexual pleasure by Ian

I realized I was kinky when I was very young and going through puberty. I found myself masturbating to various kinds of scenarios that did not just involve guy (me) on top and girl on bottom. I would feel submissive and sometimes raise my legs in the air and fantasized about being taken from behind by a man. Yet I was never sexually attracted to men, and still am not today. It was just the act of being submissive that turned me on, and still does today.

There were times I thought I was gay, or bi sexual and even experimented with a man once or twice. However afterwards, I just wanted women even more. But I noticed I was very attracted to she males and dominant transsexuals. So clearly I am attracted to females and not males. Does that make me straight? Well, I am attracted to females who have strap on dildos or cocks. So does that make me gay?

And as you can see, the concept of gay and straight becomes blurred. I don’t think we can help what we are attracted to and what turns us on. I feel that whatever fetish we have, whatever brings us the most pleasure, should be pursued. Life is short and often difficult and our sexual pleasure helps us through it all. To label it can be a mistake.

My own sexuality has forced me to be open minded about others and life itself. For whatever reason, I become aroused at the power play of a submissive male with a dominant women. Male and female are the poles that often govern our life and being male carries a lot of pressure with it. I have discovered that my sexuality and submissive side allows me to explore the feminine side of life, thus making me a more rounded person. If society needs labels, which we all know it does, than I must conform on the outside to one of these poles. I chose male. But in the bedroom, and during my spare time, playing the more submissive role allows me to relax, let go, and enjoy the human experience that much more.

I choose to label myself a sexual person. There is nothing like the smell of a women and the softness and kindness she carries. And to have a cock and thrust it into her while she moans with joy, is truly a wonderful gift. And the opposite of that is also wonderful. To be dressed as a women and be on the receiving end of a cock is something I think most men should experience. I know I learned a lot about what it’s like to receive and I think it has made me a better lover. Sex is sex and if you and your partner enjoy it, than that’s at least one thing in life you really enjoy. Let the world label what they have to, we can’t change that. But don’t let is stop you from enjoying yourself sexually during your free time and in the bedroom.

Sexual Labels Prevent Sexual Satisfaction article written by Ian More.